I’m a big believer in monetary rewards and casual bribery were kids are concerned! Works every time! I feel zero shame...
Every and any situation where we had to communicate with the ExWife, went from basic to bonkers in less than 30 seconds flat!
The bottom line, jealously isn’t classy. And the one who conducts themselves without jealously, will always have the upper hand
I openly admit to having spoiled them at times, particularly in the early days. I was trying far too hard with the big stuff, when the focus should've been on the small stuff
Essentially, step kids do not want you to act like their Mother, or a Friend or an Aunt. They don’t want you to ACT like anyone!